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Honest reflections on growth, work and fatherhood

Somewhere Between Then and Now

I came to Mumbai in December 2019 with four pairs of clothes. A few months later, lockdown left me stuck in a COVID hotspot, spending nights awake in the heat because there was no AC. Now, five years later, I’m ten days away from getting the keys to my own home.

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Flow State is My Real Enemy

When I am working on something I am interested in, I often go into a flow state where time becomes irrelevant for

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Years to Build, Seconds to Break

It takes years to build a relationship, but only seconds of anger to damage it. In moments of rage, people often say things they don’t truly mean, leaving wounds that can last far longer than the argument itself.

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Health Is Wealth. I Heard It. I Ignored It.

At 33, with a stable job, a loving family, and everything looking sorted from the outside, I was silently building high cholesterol, fatty liver, and Type 2 diabetes through sleep deprivation, stress, and small daily habits I thought were harmless.

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How Does It Feel to Outgrow Your Anger?

For years, my biggest problems were not caused by people or situations around me. They were caused by my anger and impulsive reactions. This is a reflection on what it feels like to slowly outgrow that phase.

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Trying to Understand My Overthinking

I have been noticing how often my mind refuses to slow down. Even simple things turn into long mental loops. This piece is my attempt to understand why my thoughts run the way they do and how I am learning to study the triggers, the patterns, and the emotions behind my overthinking.

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